I don’t know Jennifer Zilavy personally but I already know that she’s an asshole. Who is she? She’s the city attorney for Madison, Wisconsin. Why is she an asshole? Because of her attitude towards men:
“There’s no way that (sexual assault) will not happen,” assistant city attorney Jennifer Zilavy said. “No offense to men, but I don’t know any man who wants to just snuggle.”
The attitude that either gender is a slave to its emotions irritates me. Both men and women are capable of controlling their behavior. Men can choose not to commit sexual assault just as women can choose not to cower in fear when confronted with violence. I would go so far as to say controlling one’s behavior is a prerequisite for being considered and adult.
If people want to pay money for cuddling they should be allowed to. A vast majority of men aren’t prowling the streets in the hopes of finding a woman to rape. Any business that operates on the concept of selling a cuddling buddy for an hour isn’t going to standby if one of its employees starts getting out of hand. The fear mongering being drummed up by Zilavy is both sexist and fictitious.